The things guys find unattractive in girls are ridiculous

When we were younger most of us never cared much for the way we looked. We probably didn’t shave our legs, didn’t wear makeup, and never got our eyebrows done. But then there came a point when other people started caring about how we presented ourselves.

I was that girl walking around with some chub on my belly and big bushy eyebrows. People would comment on them all the time and tell me I was ugly. After a while of being told you’re ugly, it actually gets imbedded in your brain. I started believing it was true, which then marked the beginning of a period of very low self-esteem.

I tried to change the way I looked in hopes of changing people’s opinion about me, but it didn’t change how I felt – I still cared about what other’s thought of me. It wasn’t until I started to value myself and my opinion more than anyone else’s, that I actually fell in love with myself.

The last thing women should do is change who they are for a guy. But it’s still fun to roll your eyes at all the crazy things guys find unattractive in girls and not give a crap about it.

Kyle Reid, NJIT, 18

 “Girls who don’t have blue eyes, because my kids need to have blue eyes.”

Raph DeSouza, NYACK College, 19

“If she curses a lot. If she’s dropping an F bomb all the time I can’t find her attractive.”

Andre Lima, TSA, 21

“Girls that think they’re all that and they flaunt their body just for attention. I don’t mind when other girls do it, but if she’s my girl she can’t be showing off her body.”

Shawn Smith, BCCC, 19

“If she has slept around with a lot of people.”

Tim Farias, Rutgers, 19

“If she’s petty. I can’t stand when girls get mad for the stupidest reason, and then it’s so small that they forget about it the next couple of days.”

Danny Dos Santos, Seton Hall, 20

“If she’s clingy or needy 24/7, but like to the extreme. I need my space and I need my time to hang out with my friends sometimes.”

Kevin Yepez, 23

“It’s unattractive when she isn’t family oriented, is too childish, and isn’t ambitious.”

Pedro Brieri, 23

“When she’s vain, superficial, materialistic, or nags too much.”

Rob Rivera, 23

“The biggest turn off for me is smoking. I can’t stand the smell.”

Lucas Freitas, NYACK, 19

“She can’t be closed minded. I’m weird, I need an open minded person.”

Sammy Szeremeta, Rutgers, 18

“I don’t like when girls cake up their face with makeup. I’m okay with a little bit, but some girls change their face. I’ve had an experience when I hugged a girl, while wearing a white shirt, and half her face came off on my shirt.”

Sam Marques, 20

“It’s unattractive when she has a rude attitude or if she’s not kind, because I want her to be as kind as I am. She also needs to be happy.”

Leo DePaula, Bergen, 19

“Girls who can’t communicate. I’d rather you tell me what’s going on, and me try to help you instead of you not telling me anything at all.”

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Okay ladies, let’s get in formation and say enough is enough. We don’t need guys to tell us what they like about us. If we like who we are, what else matters?

So what if we aren’t happy? No one is ever happy all the time, everyone goes through moments of sadness. Also, if you aren’t doing anything to help make your significant other happy, what are you even doing?

Who cares if I like to wear a lot of makeup? Not me, and neither should the guys. The amount of makeup I wear should not be of anyone else’s concern, but my own.

I’m done with caring about what everyone thinks of me, and you should too. Stop trying to change yourself for someone else. Your opinion should be more important than anything anyone has to say. Someday, you will find someone who values every aspect of you, and won’t ask you to change.

Just make sure to fall in love with yourself first.

@TheTab