It’s always the quiet ones
Remember when in an interview for British Vogue Kristen Stewart said she likes to get her armpits licked? "I don't get this obsession with washing the smell off," she added. Or when Christina Aguilera told Q Magazine she's "really into fishing gear" on men?
We all have fetishes. Mine, for example, is constant love and affection, but certain fetishes take us more by surprise than others. Sometimes we're expecting a "foot thing," and sometimes we get something else entirely.
So, we asked girls some of the most shocking things guys have asked them for in bed, and this is what they told us:
Danielle, 21
A guy asked me to role play Naomi and Jordan from the Wolf of Wall Street. I didn't know what to do but yell at him in a Long Island accent and continue to be blonde. He proceeded to call me Naomi in public in front of my friends who secretly knew.
Jessa, 23
There was one guy who wanted me to hurt him during sex, but I mean HURT him. He literally wanted me to cut him and make him bleed.
Lily, 24
One guy wouldn't stop begging me to "spoon," but I didn't realize by spoon he meant lying with his dick inside of me and doing nothing else. It was essentially just uncomfortable and unnecessarily awkward cuddling.
Kim, 24
My ex (we dated for like a year) had this major kink where he would ask me to beg and plead for him to not cum inside me, which he would do anyway to "get me pregnant." I was on the pill and he knew it. During sex he would say stuff like, "Now you're pregnant and mine forever." We broke up and he blocked me on Instagram.
Andrea, 23
This guy made me masturbate in front of him to make him finish, and it was absolutely the worst masturbation (and sex) of my life.
Vanessa, 22
This sounds wild but one guy stopped in the middle of sex and asked me to put on "How Far I'll Go," like the song from Moana. We then continued fucking while he hummed to himself.
He's lucky he was hot (seriously, he has abs when he sits down, like how is that possible?).
Dani, 23
Someone I slept with once asked me to talk all about my past sexual experiences during sex, and then he asked to put on porn during it also.
Aliya, 23
Someone wanted me to tie them to their bed and force them to cum inside of me.
Colette, 21
This one guy I was seeing was SO loud throughout sex, and really wanted me to tell him what I wanted it. He kept saying things like “Oh you want my dick you gotta get on it,” and “Oh you want me to keep going? You want me to KEEP GOING?” while yelling in a very high pitched voice.
Dylan, 23
One guy asked me for a foot job and also asked if he could grab my feet during sex because he liked it.
Emma, 23
There was this one guy who would always tell me he wanted to watch me get fucked by someone else, but that I wasn't allowed to be turned on by it. Only he could be turned on.
Beth, 20
One dude asked me to get off of him and "Dance like JLo" while we were literally in the middle of having sex. I did it, but . . . it was weird.
Isabelle, 24
One guy asked to put a leather collar around my neck and piss in my mouth and watch it dribble all over me. He was kind enough to say that I "didn’t have to swallow it." And the worst was that I found out he was cheating on his girlfriend.
Annie, 26
I went on a date with a guy and then had sex with him. After the sex he starts describing a fetish of his, and I'm thinking “Oh, a foot fetish,” but not quite. He wanted me to first put on a pair of shoes with really worn down soles (in my case a pair of old Converse). And then he wanted me to sort of dance, glide, slide, grind my feet against the ground, but on ground that had, like, little rocks or crunchy leaves and make noise from it.
Of course, none of this is to kink shame, but it's kind of shocking to realize what some people are secretly (or not so secretly into in bed). You never know what's going to be asked.
Sex truly is a mixed bag.