A phone sex operator got real about what it’s like talking to masturbating dudes for a living

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A phone sex operator got real about what it’s like talking to masturbating dudes for a living

‘I’m a cheaper version of a therapist’

Andrea (not her real name) spends her days at home balancing her full-time job with her second gig as a phone sex operator. The 35 year old has worked in the phone sex game on and off, but got back into it six months ago. She dropped Babe a line and dished about all the hot and not-so-glamorous parts of her job.

How she got into it

Andrea said she originally got into phone sex after she was repeatedly told her voice was super sexy. "I had been dating people and they would say, 'Oh my god your voice!.' I figured why not make some money off of it," she told Babe.

She revealed that she really loves helping people explore their sexuality. "Hearing why they’re into that and what gets them off is a really big turn on for me," Andrea said. "I’m almost like a cheaper version of a therapist sometimes."

She's got regulars

Besides the random callers Andrea talks with, she's also got "five or six regulars" who call her everyday. "I can tell as soon as they call by their voice who they are and who they are, where they live, and what they’re into. That really helps a lot," she said.

One calls her literally first thing in the morning before he goes to work to fulfill his girlfriend experience fantasy. Not all of her regulars are looking to have the girlfriend experience though. Andrea is also a dominant for a few of her returning customers and does age-play with another.

"I have one 65 year old, who wants me to be his mom," she told us. "He wants to be my little boy. Not little boy like, creepy young, but younger than he is."

Her favorite type of call

Andrea admitted that while she likes being a dom, nothing compares to the girlfriend experience. Those types of conversations are all about the connection between her and the caller. They normally chat about their days before getting into the actual phone sex.

The worst call she's ever been on

There was one experience that Andrea has pretty much burned into her brain. Everything started out like a normal call. The customer asked her if she'd do a camera session. It wasn't out of the ordinary so Andrea agreed.

"He violated his penis," she said. "He stuck pins in it. He shoved other items in it." Andrea admitted that she "nearly threw up a couple of times" while watching the bloody scene. "I was worried about him," she added. "I was like, 'aren’t you worried something is going to get stuck in there?' That was his kink and I had to go with it."

How does she get paid?

Andrea gets two dollars per minute for her average call. She could get paid astronomically more if a caller wants to be financially dominated. They'll pay anywhere from 5-20 dollars per minute. She said, "one guy wanted to do 50 dollars a minute." She also has an Amazon wish list set up that her clients can use to send her gifts.

Where and when does she work?

Her full-time job allows her to work from home so when things are slow, Andrea turns on her phone sex line. "I do enjoy being home and being able to provide throughout the day and at night," she said. She keeps it on during the night and doesn't mind getting woken up to "give them what they need."

Who knows about her kinky second job?

Andrea's partner knows all about her phone gig. "He likes to hear how obsessed they are. He really enjoys listening," she said. "I have a special ringtone for when they call and my partner will be like, 'Okay. Go take your call.'"

She keeps the job a secret from her conservative family and turns off the line while she's with them.

The best and worst parts of the job

Phone sex definitely has its perks as far as Andrea's concerned. She loves "meeting new people" and finding out about their secret kinks. There are definitely major downsides too.

"Some of the things I don’t like are the guys that are rude," she said. Callers can get angry when they don't get what they want. Andrea told Babe about one customer who became super upset when she told him she wouldn't be his real life girlfriend. "I explained to him several times that this was fantasy. This was a job. He became very angry with me. I had to block him," she said. Sadly, that wasn't even the end it. The guy would create a new account and keep calling her.

New customers tend to hang up immediately after finishing, but Andrea doesn't mind that much because they don't know her. Her regulars are another story. "They’ll make sure they say, 'goodbye, thank you, and I’ll talk to you later,' but if they hung up on me I’d be pretty pissed," she said. "I just helped you get off! The least you could do is say, 'goodbye.'"

*Andrea's name has been changed to protect her identity.

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