Your weekly love horoscopes are here and it’s time to walk away
You deserve better
by The Tab
As Venus situates itself opposite Mars, passions are stimulated and intense, and emotions surrounding our relationships are elevated.
Our expressions of love will be more dramatic, and people may feel we are coming on too strong.
Coming on too strong? That's nothing new for you. The first sign in the zodiac, it's impossible for you to disguise your feelings, even when you want to. You know there's nothing cool about being needy, but you don't know how to be ~easy breezy~ about things like love. This week, make plans for yourself that'll keep you from texting someone who's not texting back. There's nothing that gets a guy going like not knowing where you are, or who you're with.
Because you love to be courted, pursued and wooed, you're rarely the one coming on too strong, but we all have our moments of weakness. Today, before you fire off a text message assuming the worst in someone, consider where they might be coming from. If you don't know the entire story, you're hardly one to judge. Besides, do you really want to look clingy? Nothing like double messaging to make someone's skin crawl.
Despite sometimes approaching them superficially, your sign actually harbors some of the deepest emotions. Who would have thought!? People think you're the kind to date and ditch, but that's because you're worried about becoming too attached. This week, some of those insecurities have the potential to surface in a way that could scare someone off. Instead of running, give them an idea of why you're scared to begin with. And if they don't like that, then you walk.
When a Cancer falls in love, they have difficulty stifling their parental instincts. You know the difference between motherly and sexual relationships, but you want to give everything to that one person, and that scares the shit out of them. Today, try worrying about your own satisfaction, because you can't give 'everything' to someone if there's nothing left to give. Your own life still has to come first.
People think Leo women are self-involved when they're in love, but if a woman's sun is in Leo, all of that 'involvement' actually translates to the person they're in love with. It's like you go from giving 100 percent to yourself, to giving 100 percent to someone else, and you can't find an in between. Work on finding that middle ground, because without it something will always be missing. You are not the person you're dating.
You love waiting for other people to make the first move, but it feels like you're finally becoming impatient. How long can someone wait anyway? But if waiting isn't working, don't pull a full 180 and start throwing your love at them instead. Go to them, but only go halfway. Both people are responsible in love, and if they don't want to make the effort, then why the hell are you waiting around in the first place?
The Libra woman is all about romance. She believes in true love and wants to give her heart to someone who will cherish it, but not everybody is ready to give their heart in the same way. With Venus opposite Mars, you're allowing that to frustrate you, and you may lash out because of it. Don't threaten to leave, or give them some BS ultimatum just because you're feeling insecure. Tell them you're feeling insecure, and then leave if they don't change. People deserve the full story.
Of all the Water signs, Scorpios best represent the depth of emotion. You're emotional about eveeeeerything, but because you're a little stinger, nobody actually thinks you are — they see you as cold and calculating. As Venus opposes Mars, your emotions may override your better judgment, leaving you wishing you hadn't said something to a certain someone. If you can't bite your tongue, don't message or see them in the first place. Sometimes walking away is the best thing you can do.
A Sagittarius woman will not tolerate boredom or neediness in a partner, but never thinks about what other people might not want to tolerate in her — like flightiness. But for once, the tables are turning and you're realizing you might need someone more than they need you. Because you've been so distant, this sudden admission may shock them, so only let on lightly. You can't go from 0 to 100 without freaking someone out.
For someone who's so stable in so many other ways, it's interesting that more than any other sign, Capricorn women gravitate toward signs that are innately difficult matches (read: have literally no interest in them). As Venus opposes Mars, you are coming on too strong to someone who's not that interested in the first place. Give them some space, and they might be.
The fear of losing your personality to someone else is what's held you back in almost every one of your romantic endeavors to date. As Venus opposes Mars and these feelings elevate, you're trying to pull an answer that doesn't exist out of someone. They can't tell you what to do, and it's unlikely they even want to. Stop asking them what to do, and make the decision for yourself.
Pisces women become absolutely mesmerized when they're in love, and lose sight of nearly every other aspect of their lives. This isn't a fault per say, but a weakness someone might use against you because they know you will stick around. Particularly, as Venus opposes Mars, I'll be the first to tell you you're coming on too strong, and giving them no reason to fight for this relationship. Let them know you're desired by others, and let them know you desire others.